The best person in my life

Several times I have felt in life, that Husband is the wisest quietest calmest person I ever met in my daily life. Godmen, Saints, Hrshis, Babas are different, they give up social bonds and live life according to their desires (higher level desires such as seeking moksha).

But in my real life, daily mundane life, there is one person I have always seen who practices what he preaches. That is Husband. 

He doesn't mind when people use him, he doesn't mind giving, he doesn't mind most things to do with people management. There is one thing though that he minds, his mental peace, as long as he has it, he is happy. He sincerely totally whole heartedly believes in karma, he doesn't question things too much, he honestly believes that he deserves the circumstances that life spins, he stays happy through everything. In fact, I have seen him embrace small troubles with a smile, because he says life is meant to be full of small troubles. :-) Never have I seen someone with as much gratitude towards life, with as much enthusiasm towards the spirit of humanity. 

I am not saying he's perfect. But what I mean to say is, he is the bestEST that I have come across, where he fails, nobody can anyway take his place, I don't believe anyone out there would have handled it better than him. (I don't say this out of that blind woman thing- women love their man, they'll never find him wrong..) Of course, there is me ;-) Hehehe can we smell our ego :-P  

But seriously, one person I have seen in my daily life who is sure of his mind&heart, sure of his weaknesses, sure of what is important to him, is Husband. He doesn't seek his own happiness, he really derives it out of watching others happiness. We all want to become like that, we all try to be giving in nature, but somewhere in some mood, we all begin counting on what we have given in life and what we have got. But Husband, I see him counting against God only when something serious happens (like a sick family member, sickness is out of our scope, we can go to the best doctors and then pray). 

But if there is a problem that can be overcome with human effort, I see Husband smiling at it. 

I can say with confidence, he has been a big big influence in my life, he has been with me through thick & thin... If I run to him with a problem, it is just comforting to listen to his ideas. What more does one want in life! Most of the times, I don't run to him with any problem, he solves problems for me before they reach me. Because that is what Husband is about- about giving.
One day I hope I can give him something too!! :-)
I pray to God to keep him happy always, and always look after him. I want to see him happy always, content ever.